Step 1 Choose a small probability of a man having an affair did not want to say that men Touxing, but want to do between, between do more and do less, there are still big gaps. Is it possible to calculate the probability of having an affair out of it? Of course! The incidence of some men's affair is endemic. Beware of these people should focus on the following: a, notorious playboy - do not think he got you here quit a; b, his job requires him often out socializing, he does not think that there is any problem; c, his occupational circles, men girls many people, but more than a single young woman; d, his benevolent style, at any time to accept ambiguous signals emitted by the opposite sex, but also very agreeable heterosexual love; e, less emotional experience, he always felt sorry ; f, he is a man in the crowd, or looks outstanding, or careers ...... such a conclusion, the girls definitely scared, do not look for a non-hurt uncle grandma does not love, what men want nothing to lowering his affair index it? In fact, the reason is very simple, to attract your man, another woman is not blind, so if couples requirement is absolute loyalty, they should find another woman who is not interested or compare understand style or old-fashioned traditional concept comparison disciplined man. Hold family property rights, let him know the consequences of having an affair
Step 2 grasp family property rights, let him know the consequences of an affair often luck man affair: "As long as I'm doing rigorous, thorough, they will not be found . "or say to yourself:" I just play it, will not affect the stability of the emotional relationship "and some men think:.". even if the partner know, no way I could get the big deal is breaking up, "you know increases man affair self-control, so that when he was tempted brakes, is difficult to do, especially when another woman on his initiative to attack, few men can resist "the world fall of the pie." But if he understood the serious consequences once the affair was exposed, such as "cleanse the family", "lose the house," "broke", etc., will be some resistance to external event. So the girls in a stable relationship, financial power should hold in their hands, so that you can take control of holding a man's best trump card. Remain vigilant encounter timely warnings
Step 3 remain vigilant timely warnings encountered a man having an affair is like a house on fire, the fire soon spread out, it is difficult to extinguish, and only just ignited in flames when promptly extinguished, in order to minimize the loss. In fact, a woman's intuition is very accurate: he began to stay late or even no return, increased frequency of travel to work overtime, increased suspicious telephone, absent-minded at home, reducing the number of sex ...... These are all signs. Emotional development experts to man's affair is divided into six phases: an attempt of trying period, obsessive period, stable period, the conflict period and the decision period. Best to put the girls in an attempt to extinguish the flames and try on period, otherwise enter the fascination and stationary phases is difficult to control. Now the girls, in addition to a large section of nerve in particular, the basic can detect some of the other abnormal behavior, but worried about their questioning let the other side feel nervous or pressing harder and harder and make each other feel afraid to ask questions, so give the opportunity to continue the development of an affair. COSMO suggestion is that when you feel there is anything wrong time, to dare to show his jealousy, hair freak anyway. Men must be trouble, fear of conflict, you have a trouble, a little afraid that he would naturally have to be out of temptation convergence. Of course, the premise is that you are doing well in other areas, to hold him, he will not give up because you're jealous you! To communicate with his relationship with the opposite sex boundaries
Step 4 communicate with him good relationships with the opposite sex boundaries remain vigilant not to say that you want to panic, his normal contacts with the opposite sex you still noninterference better. But what is "normal exchanges" mean? This post requires you to communicate clear boundaries, for example, and colleagues together for dinner, no problem, but if it is, and a female colleague because of non-work needs to eat alone, they are not allowed up; and classmates reminisced no problem, but not with someone female students reminisced alone, in a room; the opposite sex, no problem, but if this friend is always to call him as a private matter, chat, and even let him help do this and that, maybe the men would not be allowed a ...... will say: Do not make a fuss, nothing between us. You can smile and said to him: I certainly believe you anyway, but you think, if I and other men such "interactive", your heart will not happy, huh, huh, Who I love How about you, forgive me the narrow-minded it. After clear boundaries unless he crossed the line or you will not interfere friends. More with him into the same, concerned about his circle of friends (Source: canopy)
Step 5 more with him into the same out of your circle of friends concerned about his circle of friends, there is no intersection? Your hobby is also a big difference? In short, after the emotional stability, together with you in addition to sleep at night, there is nothing to do things together? Beware, this is a very dangerous signal it shows you his social life is out of control! To avoid this from happening, we must first not often appear in his circle of colleagues and friends, and express your territory; again join his amateur life, even if you're not interested, you can also watch the side; the third arrange travel activities together, let him in the subconscious of "going out to play bring your" consciousness. You might say that men do not like it, they are slack Lone Ranger. Oh, COSMO tell you, any habit, whether good or bad, are slowly develop, as long as you put him as a frog in warm water, and he will slowly accustomed to your practice. Do not ignore sex
Step 6 not ignore sex, creating an interesting two girls in the emotional stability of the world ignored the importance of sex, though not as an excuse for a man having an affair, but it is a very important factor . For most men, the sexual needs like water in the desert people's desire for sex as a mountain down. So, the girls try to create a pleasant stimulating sex life, make a man grateful. Men in the event of an affair, the most common reason is the "lack of warmth in the home", "with his wife's sexual disharmony", so, in a stable relationship in satisfactory sexual and emotional needs, will be able to greatly the desire of men to take the initiative to reduce the extent of the affair, but also to improve his resistance to an affair. Do their best
Step 7 who do their best not without its drawbacks, but you will not be used as a reason to give up on their demands? A relationship into the stationary phase, in fact, also entered a period of high affair. Especially women aged 30 to 40 years old at this stage, their physical attractiveness decreased, if not improve other aspects (such as professional competence, vision, mind, social skills, housekeeping ability, etc.), it means that she as a person value is declining, while the men at this stage, but often enhance the value very quickly, so there is a gap, a lot affair took place at this stage. Therefore, efforts to improve the value of your own right. When a man having an affair, and my heart will secretly comparing a valuable partner will largely prevent him break the will of a stable relationship. Besides, the high value of your own, afraid there is no other man to love you? If he is stubborn, let him take a good!
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